IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Akanele
Obi

Nov 20, 1942 — Mar 28, 2020

Bronx

Obituary

REMEMBERING AKANELE ( A.K.A IYE )

On November 20 1942, a shout of joy – uma-meee – was heared in the family of Nwosu Egbeleke of ngodo Akoli – Imenyi. Their third child was born on that fateful day. It was a female. As is the custom of the land, after eight days of birth, it was named AKANELE which by interpretation is hope. In the family, Akanele had one elderly brother 'Nwokocha' and two elderly sisters Okeoma and Nwikpe – all of a blessed memory - and a younger and only surviving sister today - Iroma who is the last child. Akanele used to call her elder brother Nwokocha, 'Iye' which is a normal respect name for elder brother in our culture. Coincidentally, Ironma thought that any elderly person in the family could be called 'Iye' and she started calling Akanele 'Iye' too . The name 'Iye' became a household name than the original name –AKANELE.

Iye naver had a formal education. When the Government wanted to build a primary school in the community, Iye's parents had a vast acres of land which they donated to the Government for the school building. The Govt. Decided to train Iye in compensation. But the parents objected the idea due to the blind love they had for Iye. Because they saw Iye as a resourceful and hard working girl who was surposed to be going to farm with them instead of wasting time with formal education. Oh yes, Iye was a hardworking woman. In the area of social activities, Iye was a dancer in her youth too. It was in one of the community's celebrations when damsels converge and were dancing, that her husband spoted her and decided to go after her in marriage in the later time.

Iye was later married to Obi Okoro in ndagbo Akoli-Imenyi in the same community. She was an indefatigable and industrious young lady who was loved by her husband and others but was at the same time hated by some envious people for her industry. It didnt stop at that, Iye was also blessed with the fruits of the womb which made the envious people sort to eliminate her life with voodoo. Iye suffered greatly from the hands of evil people in the compound of her marriage. But God, being a faithful God observed her innocency and never allowed the arrows of the enemy destroy her at that time. She escaped.But little did she know that the enemy would not rest his destructive quest against her.

Iye was mostly loved by young and old, boys and girls, children and sundry in the community. Anybody who came in contact with her was attracted by her loving character. She was no mean woman. She loved everybody as herself. Truely, she was seen as a general and a generous mother who gave food to eat to whoever hungered and came to her. She never withheld from giving what she has to anybody who asked her. She was the only woman i knew that never had any human enemy. She was a good friend to all. She never beared grudges against anyone. Even when she was practically offended and hurt, she hastely made peace and apologized. Iye think more of pleasing other people than herself.

During the civil war in Nigeria, Iye sustained a bullet wound on her right thigh in her doggedness to assist her husband sustain the family in those gloomy days. The bullet remained in her body for three years. It was after the war that she was operated upon and the bullet removed. Her husband became diseased at this time she needed his surpport most. But Iye never relented effort to forge ahead and worked hard to train her children most of whom were under aged at that time. A widow, without any help from anybody, Iye struggled alone and raised her children.
By the help of her nephew, Onyemechi Chilaka, Iye's elder son was sent to the United State to build himself a new life and surport his family. Just as when it seemed life was going to be better for Iye, the evil and envious people struck at her again with an unknown type of cough. Iye was taken to so many hospitals in Nigeria to be cured to no avail. Finally, Iye was brought to join her son in the U.S.A. Again efforts were made to cure her of the human inflicted cough to no avail. As time progressed, the cough metamorphosed to other secondary illnesses including CHF ( congestive heart failure) which finally led to her demise on march 28, 2020. Iye will be greatly missed.

God blessed this icon of a virtuous woman with 10 children. Two were dead. She is survived by the following; Chinweuche Obi, Chiekwe Obi, Akunna Goa, Onuabuchi Uluocha, Nwakaego Ikechukwu, Oluchi John, Ngozi Harrison and Ugonma Obi. She was also blessed with 18 grandchildren, many nieces and nephews.

Bye- bye Iye, Nneoma, Nneoha, we missed you greatly. Your memory will remain indelible in our heart until we meet in glory to part no more. Adeu.

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